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什么是爱情,100位名人这样看!

发布时间:2016-05-09

什么是爱情,很难有一个确定的答案,因为每一个人对爱情看法和理解不同,下面是一百位名人对爱情的看法,共分为16部分。1、寻寻觅觅 2、朦胧情愫 3、初恋情怀 4.姗姗来迟 5.情为何物 6.激情似火 7.心心相印 8.爱之魔刀 9.爱情密码 10.爱与友情 11.千里相思 12.激情相吻 13.坎坷情路 14.爱情迷宫 15.爱情克星 16.爱情荒原,如果你对爱情有自己独到的见解,可以将您的看法发到一誓玫瑰浪漫酒店的公众号,参与讨论和互动!



1、寻寻觅觅


追求爱情的小船



True love does not come by finding the perfect person ,but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly

获得真爱不是靠寻觅完美之人,而是学会把不完美之人看得完美

—— Jason Jordan 乔丹


It is possible to learn more of a human being in one minute of love than in months of observation

要了解一个人,相恋一分钟可能胜过观察几个月

——Roman Rolland 罗曼?罗兰


Love is always present ;it is just a matter of feeling it or not

爱情无时不有,无处不在,问题在于你能否感觉到

——Kimberly Kirberger 基贝格尔


Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved

决不让悬而未决的问题阻挡我们去爱应爱之人

——Barbara Johnson 约翰逊


The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread

对爱的渴望要比对面包的渴望更难消除

——Mother Teresa 特蕾莎修女


Love is the flower of life ,and blossoms unexpectedly and without law ,and must be plucked where it is found ,and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration

爱情是生命的花朵,花儿绽放出人意料,没有规律。哪里见到哪里采摘,赏花就在花开时

——D. H. Lawrence 劳伦斯


If it is your time ,love will track you down like a missile

如果轮到你了,爱情会像巡航导弹一样找到你

——Lynda Barry 巴里


Love may be blind ,but it can sure find its way around in the dark !

爱情也许是盲目的,但是在黑暗中它会找到路

Love is not finding someone to live with .It’s finding someone you can’t live without

爱情不是找一个人一块生活,而是寻找那个生活中离不开的人。

——Rafael Ortiz 奥尔蒂斯


Let the first impulse pass ,wait for the second

不要理会第一次感情冲动,等待第二次吧。

——Baltasar Gracian 格拉西安


True love is like ghosts ,which everybody talks about and few have seen

真正的爱情犹如幽灵,人人都说过,但几乎没谁见过

——Francois de la Rochefoucauld 罗什富科


Love ,while you are able to love

趁着能爱,尽快去爱

——A. Frieligrath 弗里雷格拉夫


What then in love can women do ?If we grow fond they shun us ,And when we fly them ,they pursue ;but leave us when they’ve won us

恋爱中的女人会怎么做呢?我们有了爱意,她们就遁而避之。我们避而远之,她们又紧追不舍,可是追到手又离我们而去。

——John Gay 盖伊


It is at the edge of a petal that love waits

爱情等在花瓣的边缘

——William Carlos Williams 威廉斯


Love sought is good ,but given unsought is better

追求得到的爱情固然美好,但不经追求而得到的爱情更为美好。

——William Shakespeare 莎士比亚


Don’t try so hard ,the best things come when you least expect them to

不要着急,最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one ,so that when we finally meet the person ,we will know how to be grateful

在遇到意中人之前,上帝也许会安排我们先遇到几个不合适的人;在我们终于遇见心仪之人时,便知道如何心存感激。

We love those who admire us ,but not those whom we admire

我们爱爱慕我们之人,而不是爱我们爱慕之人。

——Francois De La Rochefoucauld 罗什富科


Perfect love is rare indeed ---for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise ,the flexibility of the child ,the sensitivity of the artist ,the understanding of the philosopher ,the acceptance of the saint ,the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain

完美的爱的确不常见,因为要做一个爱人你就要具备智者的敏锐、少儿的灵活、艺术家的敏感、哲人的体谅、圣人的大度、学者的宽容和坚定者的刚毅。

——Leo Buscaglia 布斯卡格利亚


Remember that you don’t choose love ,Love chooses you

记住不是你选择爱情,而是爱情选择你

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him or her ,feel honored that love came and called at your dooe ,but gently refuse the gift you cannot return

一旦发现有人爱上了你,而你却不能报之以爱,你应为爱情前来叩门而感到荣幸,但是你要和蔼地拒绝这份你无法回报的礼物。

——Kent Nerburn 内伯恩


Love the heart that hurts you ,but never hurt the heart that loves you

Vipin Sharma

爱伤你之心,勿伤爱你之心

——Vipin Sharma沙马



2、朦胧情愫


朦胧的暧昧初恋爱情


We are alwys afraid to start something that we want to make very good ,ture and serious

我们总是害怕开始,因为凡事开了头我们都希望它美好、真实而严肃

——Brenda Ueland 尤兰


Love ceases to be a pleasure when it ceases to be a secret

爱情一旦不神秘了,也就失去了它的乐趣

——Aphra Behn贝恩


The resk it takes to remain tight inside the bud is more painful than the risk it tades to blossom

紧紧地包在花蕾中的风险要大于让它绽放的风险

——Anais Nin 尼恩


Looking back ,I have this to regret ,that too often when I loved ,I did not say so

回首往事,我心存遗憾;过去我常有爱,但却始终没能表白爱。

——David Grayson 格雷森


They do not love that do not show their love

不表白者没有爱

——William Shakespeare莎士比亚


Listen !Encourage .Say something .Do something ,Be yourself .Love !

听着,鼓足勇气!说吧,行动吧!镇静些,去爱吧!

—— Rev. Dale Turner 特纳



3、初恋情怀


初恋的爱情是这样的画面


First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity

初恋只是一点点愚蠢加上许许多多的好奇

——George Bernard Shaw 萧伯纳


How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love

究竟怎么用化学和物理来解释初恋这种重要的生物现象呢?

——Albert Einstein 爱因斯坦


We only love truly once .It is the first time and succeedin passions are less uncontrolled

真爱只有一次。它就是初恋,初恋之后感情就不那么无羁无绊了。

——Du Coeur 克尔


We always come back to our first love

我们总是会回到我们的初恋

——Etienne 艾蒂安


The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end

初恋的魔力在于我们不知道它永不会结束

——Benjamin Disraeli 迪斯雷利


First love is unforgettable all one’s life

初恋是永生难忘的。

Maxim Gorky

高尔基


4.姗姗来迟


爱情的初恋关系


Love’s like the measles ——all the worse when it comes late in life

爱情犹如麻疹——来得晚,糟得很

——Douglas William Jerrold 杰罗尔德


It is never too late to fall in love

相爱不嫌晚

Love, with very young people ,is a hearless business .We drink at that age from thirst ,or to get drunk ;it is only later in life that we occupt ourselves with the individuality of our wine

对年轻人而言,恋爱是件残酷的事。年轻时,我们渴了就饮,甚至沉入醉乡。只是年长后我们才一心嗜好自家酒。

——Isak Dinesen 丹森



5.情为何物




LOVE :The irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired

爱情:一种无法遏制的渴望,渴望得到难以克制的爱。

——Robert Frost 弗罗斯特


Love is the flower you’ve got to let grow

爱情是朵花,你要等它开放

——John Lennon 列侬


To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides

爱与被爱就像前身后背都能感爱到太阳的温暖

——David viscott 维斯科特


We can never really love anybody with whom we never laugh

如果跟一个人在一起从未有过欢乐,你就不会真正爱上他

——William Sloan Coffin 科芬


To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another

爱就是把我们的幸福融入另一个人的幸福之中

——G. W. Von Leibnitz 莱布尼茨


Love is the only gold

爱情是惟一的金子

——Lord Alfred Tennyson 丁尼生


With love ,you should go ahead and take risk of getting hurt bexause love is an amazing feeling

爱情也许会使你受到伤害但是你应该去爱,因为爱情是一种神奇的感觉

——Britney Spears 布兰妮


Love is the difficult realization that something other than oneself is real

爱情让你终于认识到除了自身之外还有件事是那样真真切切。

——Iris Murdoch 默多克


Lov eand dmagic have a great deal in common .They enrich the soul ,delight the heart .And they both take practice

爱情和魔术有许多共同之处;两者都能充实心灵、愉悦内心,而且都需要练习

——Nora Roberts 罗伯茨


Love is not just looking at each other ,it’s looking in the same direction

爱情就像贺周率——自然,非理性、却至关重要

——Antoine de Saint-Exupery 霍夫曼


Love is like pi-natural ,irrational, and VERY impoutant

爱是一种许多人经历过但只有少数人享受过的情感

——George Jean Nathan 内森


Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence

爱情是想象对智慧的胜利

——H. L. Mencken 门背


The reduction of the universe to a single being ,the expansion of a single being even to God ,this is love

把宇宙浓缩成一个人,把一个人想象成上帝——这就是爱

——Victor Hugo 雨果


Love’s a disease .But curable

爱是一种病,但却能治愈

——Rose Macaulay 麦考利


You call it Madness ,but I call it Love

你可以称它为疯狂,但我称之为爱情

——Don Byas 拜厄斯


Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others ,and the delight in the recognition

爱就是在别人身上找到我们自己,就是这种自我发现带来的喜悦

——Alexander Smith 史密斯


Love is a game that two can play and both win

爱情是一场游戏,两人参加并双双获胜

——Eva Gabor 加博尔


Love is like an hour glass ,with the heart filling up as the brain empties

爱就像沙漏,心里满了,头脑就空了。

——Jules Renoud 雷诺德


True love doesn’s have a happy ending ,because true love never ends

真正的爱情没有幸福的结局,因为真正的爱情从有会结束

If I know what love is ,it is because of you

如果我知道什么是爱,那就是因为你。

——Herman Hesse 赫思


Lov edose not begin and end the way we seem to think it does .Love is a battle ,love is a war ;love is a growing up

爱不会像我们想的那样开始或结束。爱是战斗,爱是成长

——James Baldwin 鲍德温


The only love worthy of a name is unconditional

名符其实的爱就是无条件的爱

——John Powell 鲍威尔


Love has no price .It is only love if it is free

爱情是无价的。只有不标价的爱才是真爱

——Melody Beattie 贝蒂


The sweetest joy ,the wildest woe is love

最甜蜜的快乐、最钻心的痛苦,就是爱情

——Pearl Bailey 贝利


We define love as a delight in the presence of the other person and an affirming of his value and development as much as one’s own

我们把爱情定义为一种和另一个人相处时的愉悦,一种像肯定自己的样对他人价值和发展的肯定。

——Rollo May 梅


Love is what is left in a relationship after all the selfishness is taken out

爱情是两个人关系中除去自私之后剩下的部分

——Nick Richardson 理查森


Love is like a violin .The music may stop now and then ,but the strings remain forever

爱好双小提琴。音乐可以时停时起,而琴弦伴琴,永不分离

——June Masters Bacher 巴彻


To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven

爱就仿佛是看到了天堂

——Karen Sunde 森德


To be in love is merely to be in a perpetual state of anesthesia

恋爱就是始终处于一种陶醉状态

——H. L. Mencken 门肯


Love means the body ,the soul ,the life ,the entire being .We feel love as we feel the warmth of our blood ,we breathe love as we breathe air ,we hold it in ourselves as we hold our thoughts

爱意味着身体、灵魂、生活和整个生命。我们感觉到爱就仿佛感觉到血液的温暖,我们呼吸着爱就仿佛呼吸着空气,我们拥有爱就仿佛拥有思想。

——Guy De Maupassant 莫泊桑


Falling in love consists merely in uncorking the imagination and bottling the common-sense

坠入爱河只不过是把想像力从瓶子中释放出来,把判断力装进去

——Helen Rowland 罗兰


Lov eis a sweet torment

爱情是一种甜蜜的折磨

Love is a sweet tyranny ,because the lover endures his toument willingly

爱情是甜蜜的暴君,爱人心甘情愿受他的折磨

Love is the wisdom of the fool and the folly of the wise

爱情是愚者的智慧、智者的愚蠢。

——Samuel Johnson 约翰逊



6.激情似火




Who loves ,raves

谁恋爱谁狂热

——Byron拜伦


For those passionately in love ,the whlole world seems to smile

对那些激情相爱的人而言,整个世界似乎都在微笑

——David Myers 迈尔思


Love is fire .But whether it’s gonna warm your heart or burn your house down you can never tell

爱情是火,它是温暖你的心房还是烧毁你的住房,你永远说不准。

——Jason Jordan 乔丹


The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth ,the delight ,the ecstasy of it ,you will discover that for you the world is transformed

一旦心里有了爱这种奇妙的东西,并且能感受到这种爱有多深,感受到它带来的快乐和狂喜,你就会发现世界已经为你而改变。

——J. Krishnamurti 克里希纳穆尔蒂


7.心心相印




We are ,each of us angels with only one wing ;and we can only fly by embracing one another

我们人人都是独翼天使,只有相拥才能飞翔。

——Luciano de Crescenzo 克雷申佐


Wherever you are ,I am there also

无论你走到哪里,我都形影不离。

——Ludwig van Beethoven 贝多芬


Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age ,but they die young

深深相爱的人永不会老;他们可能因年龄而寿终,但他们离世时却依然年轻。

——Arthur Wing Pinero 皮内罗


And in the end ,the love we take will be equal to the love we make

最终,我们得到的爱会等于我们付出的爱。

——The Beatles 披头士乐队


We were two and had but one heart between us

我们是两个人但共有一颗心

——Francois Villon 维庸


8.爱之魔刀




Every man is a poet when he is in love

每个恋爱中的人都是诗人

——Plato 柏拉图


Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love

地球引力不会使人坠入爱河

——Albert Einstein 爱因斯坦


Where there is great love there are always miracles

哪里有伟大的爱,哪时太会有奇迹

——Willa Cather 卡瑟


Love rules his kingdom without a sword

爱,不用利剑就统治了他的王国

——Herbert 赫伯特


Love builds bridges where there are none

爱在没桥之处搭建起一座桥

——R. H. Delaney 德莱尼


With love and patience ,nothing is impossible

爱情加耐心,世上无难事

——Daisaku Ikeda 艾克达


Love conquers all things ;let us too surrender lto Love

爱情征服一切;让我们也向爱情屈服吧

——Virgil 维吉尔


In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities

相爱就像在梦中,没有事情是不可能的

——Janos Arnay 阿内


Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do .Where there is love and inspiration ,I don’t think you can go wrong

不要放弃你想要做的事。只要有了爱情和灵感,我想你不会犯错误

——Ella Fitzgerald 菲茨杰拉德


The cure for all ills and wrongs ,the cares ,the sorrows and the crimes of humanity ,all lie in the one word ‘love ‘.It is the divine vitality that everywhere produces and restores life

要清除人类全部的邪恶、焦虑、悲伤和罪恶,良方就是一个“爱”字。它是一种神圣的力量,它创造生命,修复生命。

——Lydia Maria Child 查尔德


One word frees us of all the weight and pain os life ;that word is love

一个字使我们摆脱了生活的沉重与痛苦;这个字就是爱

——Sophocles 索福克勒斯


If you have it [love],you don’t need to have anything else. If you don’t have it ,it doesn’t matter much what else you have

如果你拥有爱情 ,你便别无它需。如果你没有爱情,你拥有的一切都无关紧要

——Sir James M. Barrie 巴里


Age does not protect you from love but love to some extent protects you from age

年龄不影响爱情,但爱情在某种程度上使人永葆青春

——Jeanne Moreau 莫罗


Love is a tyrant sparing none

爱情是人人都不放过的暴君

——Pierre Corneille 高乃依


Love makes the wildest spirit tame ,and the tamest spirit wild

再狂野的心,爱情也使之驯服,再驯服的心,爱情也使之狂野

——Alexis Delp 德尔普


Love is everything .It is the key to life ,and its influences are those that move the world

爱就是一切。客观存在是人生的钥匙,它的影响撼动世界

——Ralph Waldo Trine 特赖因


Love is a force more formidable than any other .It is invisible ---it cannot be seen or measured ,yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment ,and offer you more joy than any material possession could

爱情的力量无与伦比。它无形无声,看不见也测不到,然而它威力无比,瞬间就改变你,给你带来任何财富都不能带来的快乐

——Barbara De Angelis 安杰利斯


I would rather live and love where death is king than have eternal life where love is not

我宁愿在死神统治之地生活相爱,也不愿在没爱的地方长生不老

——Robert Green Ingersoll 英格索尔


I believe love produces a certain flowering of the whole personality which nothing else can achieve

我相信,只有爱情才能使人格发展成熟

——Ivan Sergeevich 谢尔盖耶维奇


9.爱情密码




To be loved ,be lovable

要想被爱,必须可爱

——Ovid 奥维德


There is no greater invitation to love than loving first

要想别人爱,首先爱别人

——St. .Augustine 奥古斯丁


The way to a woman’s heart is through your wallet

打动芳心靠的是你的钱包

——Frand Dane 戴恩


I like not only to be loved ,but to be told that I am loved

我不仅喜欢别人爱我,而且也喜欢 有人对我说他爱我

——George Elliot 艾略特


A beautiful form is better than a beautiful ;a beautiful behavior than a beautiful form

脸蛋美不如外形美,外形美不如行为美

——Ralph Waldo Emerson 爱默生


Better is a dinner of herbs where love is ,than a stalled ox and hatred therewith

相亲相爱吃糠咽菜胜似有分有恨大酒大肉。

——Charlotte Bronte 勃朗蒂


The secret of love is seeking variety in your life together ,and never letting routine chords dull the melody o fyour romance

爱情的秘决在于让天天相守的时光充满变化,决不让一成不变的琴统减弱浪温的旋律

The pleasure of love is in loving

爱情的快乐在于去爱

——Duc De La Rochefoucauld 罗什富科


If you love someone ,put their name in a circle not a heart ,because a heart can be broken ,a circle goes on forever

如果你爱上谁,就把他的名字放入一个圆圈,而不要放在心里,因为心可以破碎而圆却永无止境

——Brian Littrell 利特菜


Love is so simple

爱是如此简单

——Jacques Prevert 普雷韦


Trouble is part of your life-if you don’t share it ,you don’t give the person who loves you a chance to love you enough

麻烦是生活中的一部分;如果不与人分担,你就不能给爱你的人提供一个机会

——Dinah Shore 肖尔


Great loves too must be endured

伟大的爱情也必须忍耐

——Coco Chanel 沙内尔


Don’t fall in love with somebody who doesn’t love you back

不要爱上不回报你爱的人

——Herbie John 约翰


Love is not something you feel .It’s something you do

爱不是感觉,而是行动

——David Wilkerson 威尔克森


Love is a choice you make from moment

爱情是时时要做斩选择

——Barbara De Angelis 安杰利斯


The best proof of love is trust

爱的最好证明是信任

——Joyce Brothers 布拉泽斯


People who are sensible about love are incapable of it

谁在爱情上讲究理智谁就没有能力去爱

——Douglas Yates 耶茨


Love is something more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share

爱情不仅仅是两个人之间的兴趣、吸引力和共同点的相加

——Kent Nerburn 内伯恩


Love is shown in your deeds ,not in your wouds

爱见于行而不见于言

——Fr. Jerome Cummings 卡明斯


The art of love …is largely the art of persistence

爱的艺术在很大程度上就是坚持不懈的艺术

——Albert Ellis 埃利斯


There is no remedy for love but to love more

爱情没有其他的选择,只有更多地去爱

——Henry david Thoreau 梭罗


True love grows by sacrifice and the more thoroughly the soul rejects natural satisfaction the stronger and more detached its tenderness becomes

真爱在牺牲中发展。灵魂拒绝物质的满足越彻底,这份柔情就越强烈越超然

——St .Theresa of Lisieux 圣女小德兰


Love must be as much a light ,as it is a flame

爱情必须既是一盏灯,也是一团火

——Henry David Thoreau 梭罗


If you wish to be loved ,love !

要想被爱,只有去爱

——Seneca 塞内加


In love the paradox occurs that two beings cecome one and yet remain two 。

爱情的悖论是两个人合为一体,又各自独立

——Erich Fromm 弗洛姆


True love comes quietly ,without banners or flashing lights

真爱悄悄光临,既不旗幡招展,也不灯火辉煌。

——Erich Segal 塞加尔


That’s the thing about love and romance ----no one can predict where it will take you .Love will fill your heart ,break your heart and then heal the heart that’s broken

爱情和浪漫就是如此;没有谁可以预测它会把你带向何方。爱可以充实你的心灵,也可以让你心碎再使之愈合。

——Robert Fulghum富尔戈哈姆


The quickest way to receive love is to give ;the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly ;and the best way to keep love is to give it wings

要想得到爱,最快的方法就是付出爱;要想失去爱,最快的方法就是紧紧钳住爱;要想留住爱,最好的办法是让爱插翅飞翔


10.爱与友情




All love that has not friendship for its base ,is like a mansion built upon sand

没有友情做基础的爱情犹如建在沙地上的大厦。

——Ella Wheeler Wilcox 威尔科克斯


Love will enter cloaked in friendship’s name

爱情会打着友情的幌子闯入你的生活

——Ovid 奥维德


Love is friendship set on fire

爱情是点燃的友谊

——Jeremy Irons 艾恩思


Feiendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love

友情是伤心欲绝的失恋者的最佳止疼药

Friendship often ends in love ;but love in friendship ,never

友情常以爱情而结束,但是爱情却绝不以友情而告终

——Charles Caleb Colton 科尔顿


Love is when you feel something more than friendship but can’t quite describe it

爱就是你感觉超过友情而又不能描述的东西


11.千里相思




Absence to love is what wind is to fire .It extinguishes the small ;it inflames the great

离别之于爱情好比风之于火,它能将小火熄灭,使大火熊熊燃烧。

——Roger de Bussy-Rabutin 拉比旦


Absence sharpens love ,presence strengthens it

分离爱更切,相聚爱弥坚

Absence---that common cure of love

别离——爱情的灵丹妙药

Love reckons nours for months ,and days for years ;And every little absence is an age

爱把小时算作月,爱把日子当作年;每次短暂别离,恍若隔世苦难言。

——John Dryden 德赖登


12.激情相吻




Soul meets soul on lover’s lips

心与心印在爱人的唇上

------Percy B. Shelly 雪莱


You may conquer with the sword ,but you are comquered by a kiss

你可以用剑征服别人,但是别人用吻征服了你

-------Daniel Heinsius 海因西厄斯


For it was not into my ear you whispered ,but into my heart ,It was not my lips you killed ,but my soul

你轻轻的话语不是说在我的耳际,而是说进我的心田;你的吻不是印在我的双唇,而是印在我的心灵

-------Judy Garland 加兰


A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous

吻是大自然设计的可爱的花招,用以阻止多余的话语

-------Ingrid bergman 博格曼


To me ,there is no greater act o fcourage than being the one who kisses first

在我看来,没有什么行为比先去亲吻别人更富有勇气了

------Janeane Garofalo 加罗法洛


Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can’t see anything wrong with each other

亲吻使两人如胶似漆,看不到对方的任何缺点

-------Rene Yasenek 亚瑟内克


Sissing is like drinking salted water;;you drink and your thirst increases

接吻就像喝盐水,越喝口越渴

Ancient lovers believed a kiss would literally unite their souls ,because the spirit was said to be carried in one’s breath

古代的情人们相信亲吻可以真正地使两个灵魂合二为一,因为据说人的灵魂就在呼吸中

-------Eve Glicksman 格利克斯曼


13.坎坷情路




The course of true love never die run smooth

真爱无坦途

-------William Shakespeare 莎士比亚


For one human being to love another :that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks ;the ultimate ,the last test and proof ,the work for which all other work is but preparation

让一个人支爱另一个人,这或许是我们最艰巨的任务,是最终和最后的考验和证明。其它的一切只不过是前奏而已

-----Rainer Maria Rilke 里尔克


The pain of love is the pain of being alive .It is a perpetual wound

爱的育苦即活着的痛苦,它是永恒的伤痛

-----Maureen Duffy 达菲


You can’t buy love ,but you can pay heavily for it

你不能习到爱情,但你可以为之付出高昂的代价

-----Henny Youngman 扬曼


Of all pains ,the greatest pain is to love ,and love in vain

苦中之苦,莫过于爱而无果

-----George Granville 格兰维尔


We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love ,never so forlornly unhappy as when we have lost our love lbject or its love

我们从不像恋爱时那样对痛苦毫不设防,也从不像失恋时那样凄凉悲惨

-----Sigmund Freud 弗洛伊德


14.爱情迷宫




Love is blind ,and lovers cannot see the pretty follies that themselves commit

爱情是盲目的,恋人看不到自己所做的那些可爱的傻事

-----William Shakespeare莎士比亚


We all suffer from the preoccupation that there exists ...in the loves one ,perfection

我们都认为我们所爱的人都是完美的

-----Sidney Poitier 普瓦蒂


Love is a little blind .When we love someone dearly ,we unconsciously overlook many thoughts

爱情有一点盲目。当我们深爱一个人时,我们不知不觉地忽略了许多想法

-----Beatrice Sarnders 桑德斯


Lovers are fools ,but Nature makes them so

情人都是傻瓜,但这是造化使然。

——Elbert Hubbard 哈伯德


If only oen could tell true love from false love as one can tell mushrooms from toadstools

倘若能像分辨食用蘑菇和有毒蘑菇那样识别爱情真伪那该多好啊!

——Katherine Mansfield 曼斯菲尔德


15.爱情克星

Pure love and suspivion cannot dwill together: at the door where the latter enters ,the former makes its exit

纯洁的爱情和无端的猜疑水火不容:起了疑心,丢了爱情。

——Alexandre Dumas 大仲马


If our love is only a will to possess ,it is not love

如果我们的爱仅仅是占有欲,那就不是爱

don’t hold to anger ,hurt or pain ,They steel your energy and keep you from love

不要老是愤怒、伤害或痛苦。它们偷走你的情力,让你得不到爱。

——leo Buscaglia 布斯卡格利亚


it is impollible to love and be wise

恋爱理智难共存。

——bacon 培根


dignity and love do not blend well ,nor do they continue long together

尊严与爱情难调和,难以长久共存。

——ovid 奥维德


it is unfortunately very true that ,without leisure and money ,love can be no more than an orgy of the common man .Instead of being a sudden impulse full of ardor and reverie ,it becomes a distastefully utilitarian affair

这虽不幸但却是真实的:没金钱,无闲暇,爱情只不过是普通人的一次狂欢。它不是一时兴起的热情和幻想,而是一件令人扫兴的功利的事情。

——chares Baudelaire 波德莱尔


To say the truth ,reason and love keep little company together nowadays

说真话,理智和爱情水火难相容。

——William Shakespeare 莎士比亚


Oh ,love is real enough ;you will find it someday ,but it has one archenemy ——and that is life

噢,爱情真真切切。终有一天你会找到它,但是它有一个大敌,那就是生活

——Jean Anouilh Ardele 阿代尔


Lov eis patient and kind ;love is not jealous or boastful ;it is not arrogant or rude

爱是耐心和善良;爱不是忌妒和吹嘘;爱不是傲慢和粗鲁。

——The Bible 《圣经》


Loves comquers all things except poverty and toothache

除了贫穷和牙疼,爱情征服一切。

——Mae Wset 韦斯特


16.爱情荒原

Take away love and our earth is a tomb

没了爱,地球就是一座坟墓

——Robert Browning 勃朗宁


The essential sadness is to go through life without loving .But it would be almost equally sad to leave this world without ever telling those you loves that you love them

没有爱的一生是莫大的悲伤。而离开这个世界之前没有对你爱的人说你爱他,同样是莫大的悲伤。

——Krishna 克里希那


If we deny love that is given to us ,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss ,then our lives will be empty ,our loss greater

假如我们拒绝别人的爱,假如我们害怕痛苦和损失不愿付出爱,那第我们的生活就会一片虚无,我们就会遭爱更大的损失。

A life without love is a sinful and immoral thing

滑有爱的生活是罪恶、不道德的事

——Vincent Van Gogh 凡高


He to whom this emotion is a stranger ,who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe ,is as good as dead ;his eyes are closed

谁对这种情感感到陌生,谁对它漠然无奇,敬而远之,他就无异于双目紧闭的行尸走肉。

——Albert Einstein 爱因斯坦


To fear love is to fear life ,and those who fear life are already three parts dead

害怕爱即害怕生活,害怕生活的人早已四分死了三分

——Bertrand Russell 罗素


The only abnormality is the incapacity to love

惟一的残疾就是欠缺爱的能力

——Anais Nin尼恩


Love is life …And if you miss love ,you miss life

爱就是生活、、、你错过了爱,就是错过了生活

——Leo Buscaglia 布斯卡格利亚


Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more ,and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life

爱有高昂的代价,但有爱代价更高。害怕去爱者常常发现,没有爱便感到空虚,生活无滋无味

——Merle Shan 沙恩


A life without love in it is like a heap of ashes upon a deserted hearth ,with the fire dead ,the laughter stilled and the light extinguished

生活没有爱如同被遗弃的炉灶里的一堆灰。火灭了,一片漆黑,再也没有了欢笑

——Frank Tebbets 特贝茨


Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit

没有爱情的生活就像既不开花也不结果的树

——Kahlil Gibran 吉布兰


The great tragedy of life is not that men perish ,but that they cease to love

人生的悲剧不在于离开这个世界,而在于停止去爱。

——w. Somerset Maugham 毛姆


we cease loving ourselves if no one loves us

如果没人爱我们,我们就不再爱自己。

——Germaine de Stael 施泰尔(原版英语整理)